Do you feel facebook causes a problem in marriages?

[Alli8833]

Yes. Facebook causes problems AAAALLLL the time. Drama can easily be created (not that it always is), because people reconnecting with old flames and chatting with people from work and stuff feel like it's so easy to do and it seems so harmless on the surface, and then drama ensues as one or the other starts to flirt (because they're bored, or looking for an ego stroke, etc), and it blossoms from there, and then the other person in the relationship almost always finds out eventually, and so on... It's a much better idea to avoid the whole thing and not use facebook beyond racking up a friends list and checking out your homepage once in a while. Better safe than sorry. The road to hell is paved with good intentions, you know? Even the most loyal, honest, and well intentioned person can be susceptible to stuff like this if the circumstances are right, so I figure why take the risk? I've just seen it cause issues too many times, in strong, trusting relationships. I'm not talking divorce, but definitely enough to compromise trust within the relationship.