Do sites like craigslist men-for-men and manhunt make you ashamed to be gay?

[Pyrrha]

Kinda, but whatcha going to do?

Humans are stupid.

But it's their lives, let them do what they want as long as it's not hurting anyone.

I myself prefer a significant relationship. It's my fetish.

[Midnightpencil337]

YES YES YES

Why are people so seedy! Don't forget there's straights doing the same thing...

[Honey T.]

I'm not a gay man but if I was, I don't think those sites would make me ashamed. Craigslist's men-for-women section is pretty foul too. In general Craigslist's is just the dregs of society.

[profile1]

But you feel okay using ghetto Myspace and Facebook? LOL. It's the same thing. I don't know why you guys want to get married. You never stick with one person.

[scibear]

Those kinds of sites sometimes make me feel ashamed to be HUMAN, since there are sites like that for everyone, regardless if they're gay, straight, bi or lesbian. On the other hand, it's probably not a good idea to go around being so judgmental. I think you'd be surprised, nay...SHOCKED to discover that some of your closest friends and/or family members might be using such sites to get off. You never know. Besides, people use myspace and facebook for the same thing..it just takes them longer to get results. At least with craigslist et al. people can be perfectly up front and honest about what they're looking for. Frankly, i think it's more reprehensible for someone to place a profile the says they're seeking "friendship" or "love" when what they're REALLY seeking is a quick roll in the hay.

It's great thing to have morals but self-righteousness is much uglier thing than immorality.

[collegebound]

I have an ad. I use it because I have hope one day I will cross a guy that wants something similar. I have came to the conclusion that in my small town I have to be discreet and well through myspace and facebook it is not a private party so I have to ponder on the idea that they are even interested in the same sex.

I cant lie though, I have marketed myself at one point but I believe it is a maturity thing we all go through. There is a point in a gay/bi life where they want something permanent and faithful. We aren't really good at that though. I wish we were especially knowing I want something like that so badly. But we have not evolved enough to stop being so destructive to our bodies. Every guy I have met has been looking for nothing more then sex, even straight men who are even married. I just think again as a gender we are bad at this.