Am I in the wrong for spying?

[Mousie]

if he gave you his phone and passwords then why carry the issue on? he's gunna leave you based on how your treating him.

you posted this 6 months ago. i'm sorry but you have problems girlie.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...440AAuTHm6

[RWT]

You can spy on him all you want but you still aren't going to trust him. You do realize that he could create new accounts with different passwords, right? He could even have a separate phone that you don't know about.

My point is, you are driving yourself crazy about nothing. If he wants to cheat, he's going to. If he doesn't want to cheat, your spying on him is probably going to drive him to it.

My ex constantly accused me of cheating even though I never gave him a reason to suspect me. I never cheated but I did think about it after all the accusations. If I'm going to pay the consequences, I might as well have the fun.

It turns out my ex was the cheater. Every ex I've ever had that accused me of cheating was actually the cheater.

Are you sure you aren't doing something you feel guilty about?

Yes. It's wrong of you to spy. Find something constructive to do with your time or set this poor man free.