how to talk to this girl?
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03-31-2014, 02:43 PM
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how to talk to this girl?
Ok, I like this girl. She's on my school and I always see her on lunch and on the hallways. I really want to talk to her. The problem is I'm way to shy to actually talk to her. And I mean extremely shy. Help !
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03-31-2014, 02:52 PM
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It's like jumping into a cold swimming pool or getting out of bed in the morning, the more you think about it, the harder it is, but when you finally do it, you think hey this isn't so bad. Just talk to her as your would anyone else, because she's no different, she's a human being like anyone else you know, and so will respond to the normal ways in which you get to know someone. Be friendly and polite and see what you have in common etc. Do it, you won't regret it, even if it goes wrong oh well, forget it, we all die one day, everything's forgotten, and hey, you'll feel more confident having taken the step before and so it'll be even easier next time. Good luck (:
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03-31-2014, 03:04 PM
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I know it sounds crazy, but you've just GOT to give it a shot. you don't have anything to lose so just go for it.
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03-31-2014, 03:15 PM
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Ok firstly,you dont wanna scare her off as being hitting on her
Muster your courage for that 30 seconds Go up and say "hi,I am ___, nice to meet you" And a friendly smile and shake her hands Then tell her what class you are in and say that she seems friendly And maybe you guys can hang out sometime Ok,HERE IS THE IMPORTANT PART After she says yes,you guys can hang out sometime You act kinda like you have to go But this time,friendly smile turns into flirty smile and just go You dont wanna hang around her too long to make her feel like... You just wanna get in her pants Or that you are too aggressive and desperate After that,try to add her on facebook(ask around) Its the best stalking invention EVER See what she likes on fb She what she does,what she thinks See what she puts for profile pic and cover pic Coz if she puts some anime character as profile pic You already know she is a huge fan of anime If she puts a photo of a tourist destination,like Venice It means that she likes to travel,she wants to go there And also the music she hears This is very important so when she talks At least you know the next line and what she is talking about Girls are more to emotionally connect than boys Thirdly,BE GOOD FRIENDS WITH HER BEST FRIENDS This gotta be the most important part Coz its like a recommendation letter to enrol into Harvard If you screw this up,you have to love somebody else Coz girls tell each other everything They love to take and give advices on boyfriends So,if you get the chance to go out with her and her besties You must be clever enough to know that the center of the spotlight is not her But her besties So that in the future when she brings you up as a potential boyfriend in front of her friends They dont go like: "damn girlfriend,are you desperate?" Also, one very lethal weapon of winning girls heart is to have chivalry! If one day she gets insulted or bullied by the school jock in the hallway Say thanks to God coz He has given you a chance to prove yourself!! Save her!! Fight for her!!PROTECT HER!! Even she doesnt give you a kiss after that She will think about you that night:-) P.S i dont want you reading this and say thanks just like that,I want you to tell me you do it and succeeded and only thank me later,coz I believe the real problem here is not that you dont know what to do,rather,you dont have the courage to |
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03-31-2014, 03:20 PM
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You have to gain the confidence to talk to her. This confidence comes from within and it's not something that comes easily.
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