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what does he want from me?! please read im exhausted?
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05-08-2014, 09:34 PM
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what does he want from me?! please read im exhausted?
please help me and take the time to read this. i need someone to help me. my ex boyfriend and i just broke up. We've broken up 2 times and we started going out 2 years ago. so during those 2 years weve broken up twice. the first time he told me was because he wasnt happy with himself. 3 months pass and he gets back with me. we stay together for 5 months and he found out during the 3 months of me being single, i had sex with my ex boyfriend before him. he broke up with me because it hurt him. so recently we started dating again and started as a couple again for about a month. he told me, he couldnt see me the same anymore. and so i said okay im going to move foward with my life.and leaving what we had in the past. and he replied " youre really doing this?" so i told him what are we then and he replied the next day, i just cant see you the same anymore. ive always wanted to work things out with you because i love you so damn but but i just see you different. so i agreed and didnt text him back. i texted him the next day at 7 am if i could pick up my moms expensive pan from him and he said " yeah no worries
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05-08-2014, 09:47 PM
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It sounds like he wants to get back together with you but maybe he doesn't want to be the one to try and fix things. With you only giving him short answers or him feeling like you didn't want to talk to him, he probably felt like he would be wasting his time if he asked you out again.
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05-08-2014, 10:00 PM
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You should have just got your mom's pan, said good bye, and drove off.
It seems that he wants you to continue to be at his beck and call (...transportation...employment agent...break up...make up...sex...). Maybe he thought you weren't serious about breaking up. I mean, when he asked "youre really doing this?" you should have said 'yes' instead of "what are we then". You have basically told him that even though he said he doesn't see you the same anymore (probably meaning he doesn't trust you), you are still open to being in a relationship with him? Now he's mad because you won't give him the attention he wants. If your intent is to end the relationship, say that to him in as plainly as you can, whether through text or with a phone call, and then block him on all of your social media (including Facebook) and your phone so that you're not continuing to keep yourself tied to him. Hopefully doing those things will really help you to move on. And if you choose to stick around, never forget that trust can be difficult to regain once it's lost. If he doesn't trust you, he doesn't really love you. |
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