Is is OK for my wife to talk to her ex boyfriend from 20 years ago on the phone once a week.?

[The Brother]

I would tell that dude to find another friend because this woman is my wife. Then I would tell my wife that if she wanted to remain my wife she can't be sitting around kickin' the bo bo with some other dude. Feck that! Thats exactly how the bullshyt starts. Then when you walk in on her and she has his dyck in her mouth you'll be wondering how that happened. Nip it in the bud or tell her to hit the road Jack!

[gingerbread]

if they just caught up with each other (in the last couple of months) let them chat it up. It may just die down. You can always let her know that you feel uncomfortable with it. It is not a trust issue, so much as her getting close with another man. Ask her how she would feel if you chatted it up with an ex girlfriend from 10 yrs ago. (or right before you get married). Would she care? (yes she would)

[Maxy]

Its only ok if you are okay with it