What do I say to a woman that's on my husband's facebook that flirted with him when she stayed in our home?

[akrus]

Since you have been on his face book and can clearly see her. Chat her. I would tell her in the nicest way you don't think she needs to be talking to your married man. She's gonna respest the honesty. And even if you feel awkward you will be getting your point across.And I would let him know that it steams you and make sure he doesn't make you feel anything less than in the right.

[wittysmoke925]

You should tell her to back the F***off your husband and ask your husband what's up with this girl? she needs to be deleted off his friends bcause if she had the guts enough to flirt w/him in your own house just imagine what she would be capable of doing online or anywhere else. It is better to get it out and off your chest trust me.

[seanies bumble-bee]

u should be upset with your husband for accepting her as a friend, im sure he knows that she flirted with him and he probably likes the attention, u should have brought it up right then and there and told ur husband that her flirtiness made u uncomfortabe i wou ld never let a woman get away with flirting with my husband under my own home.

[Diane K]

Oh yea I know so well that flirting issues.The question is not Why she is doing this or that but how about man,who are open to those hot chicks? Nothing stops them.The hot chicks are everywhere so,if man are willing to coop with flirting,frendship(frendship my AXX) than what we are? solid stool so they can get stability and fun with hotties outside!!!! I'm realizing more everyday that is becoming a norm.Because we are letting it.Some stupid looser says it's OK,to that kind of behavior till they actually FXXK.Huh ! it's like, ignoring a gun on 3yrs old"s hand and and when there is an incident that we can't reverse,saying I didn't see it's coming....

[overcast]

You should be mad at your husband for not blocking those signals, he was probably checking her out and the sister caught on, sounds like your husband wants to keep her close if she is in his facebook page, don't you have to accept someone as a friend to be part of your facebook?

Let me guess, you've gotten mad at him before because of the girl, then he turns it around and says that she is the one flirting with him so what can he do...

Women are so blind, even married men have desire to be with other women all the time and the only reason he is keeping her close is to make sure she doesn't lose interest in him. He may not cheat because he knows there is risk in losing the marriage, but he is letting her in because that desire is strong in him.